Colleges.ugh.decision time.help!please?
Colleges.ugh.decision time.help!please?
im deciding between sonoma state and humboldt state.
my mom wants me to go to sonoma, mostly because its closer (about an hour away).
*the pros:
close to home
sunny weather
nice dorms
better reputation
*cons:
-Rohnert Park (the town its in) is sooooo boring!it’s deff not a college town. its in the suburbs and all they have is like a bunch of chainstores. i HATE that kind of environment. and i heard the town is full of a bunch of old people who always call the cops
-commuter campus..half the people leave on weekends, which means i probably will. but i want to go to a college that will be my HOME not a home away from home.
Humboldt
pros:
-downright beautiful campus and area. redwood trees everywhere.
-the smell of fresh, clean air (lots of trees=more oxygen)
-people there are SO nice! just a bunch of chill people
-dont need a car because most things are within walking distance
-residential campus–it will be my home. and i hope to live in that area after i graduate.
-the town is very college friendly–its a college town! lots of college-centered things
-in general, i just love the town its in (Arcata, CA)
-the food is mostly organic and fresh (grown right in the area)
cons:
-bad weather–it rains most of the year :/ (although i dont really care)
-when people think humboldt, they think weed
im not too concerned about the reputations because im going into nursing and they dont really care where you graduate from, employers care more about the grades you got.
ugh!!so hard.
do i go to a school i downright love and cant wait to go to even though it rains
or
do i go to a school my parents favor thats closer to home and has nicer weather?
what would you do in my situation?
4 Responses
Lexie
11 Jul 2010
Decker12
11 Jul 2010
yes
runwithme.
11 Jul 2010
You should go for what you want.
College is when you start to make your own decisions.
I can understand how your parents would want to keep you close, but it’s time to let go a little and have some new experience. Time for the baby bird to leave the nest, to put it in a cheesy way.
Maybe make a promise to come home like once every two weeks,
or call every other day, or e-mail your parents every day, or even send them
a postcard with handwritten notes every week,
to keep in touch with them.
This way, they will feel reassured.
And of course, another big factor should be what you want to study.
berkeleyhopeful
11 Jul 2010
Humboldt .. it sounds like where you actually want to go… after all… you don’t want to go some place where you aren’t going to like it right?
You have more pro’s for Humbolt and less cons – go there. Go to the school that will make you happier!